I've realized that you can not change the way others think, and especially not make them decide on whatever you wish for them to decide on. Each individual has control of what they want to do, or more like, of there actions. There's always that one friend that wishes you would do everything they demand you to do. I can assure you, that you won't be able to change that person, the same way they can't change you. But having the power to choose who you hang out with is fair enough. Choose to be around people who make you happy, that make you laugh, and especially people you have things in common with, not people who make your life a living hell.
So true.
ReplyDeletevery true but you could also try and help those controlling people see the other side show them by example that its okay to relax and go with the flow.
ReplyDeleteMost of the people that are controlling only change there understanding of things on there own, and it takes time, so most of the time it's better if you give them space and go separate ways. But your right that might work for some people :) Thank you for commenting Travis
DeleteThis post is a perfect example of what's going on in my life right now! It's so true!! Choose the people who make you happy <3 yes!!
ReplyDeleteIt's great that you can relate to this :) It may not be a good situation as in what your going through now, but it's good that someone can relate to these words.
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